LADIES IF YOU LOVE HIM LET HIM GO! MAKE HIM COME BEGGING BACK
I know we have all heard this saying before, but it’s so true. Even if it breaks your heart, it’s better to have your heart broke now, believe me it will be much better to get over him now than if many years go by. If it’s meant to be it will, trust me on this, I have seen it over and over again with myself, friends, family, daughters, and so on. Don’t get me wrong, many couples who are together for years break up and go back, but it still applies. Let them call you crying and begging you to take them back!
Guys leave for basically 5 reasons I can narrow down.
1. They no longer love you or want to be with you.
2. You have a fight
3. They are just confused, maybe not sure, and need time alone to think it out.
4. They want to cheat or are cheating.
5. They are just jerks, they were with you to see what or how far they could get.
You will figure it out if you just sit back and wait, if you want him back
time will tell.
Don’t just sit back and wait either. Go out and have fun. Even if your not having fun, act like you are. My boyfriend used to get so upset because he would see me out, or talk to my sister and friends and they would tell him, ” Oh, I saw her here, or saw her there with so and so, she was dancing and having a great time.” If they love you, this will bother them big time! Even if I was, broken hearted and crying inside, he never knew it or thought it.
This one works great, I use to actually leave a message on my answering machine saying ” Hi this is Gia, I’m out for the night, will call and check messages, leave a message.” Works everytime, I would have 100 hangups from his number.
p.s. One little tidbit, unless your girlfriends are true girlfriends, don’t even tell them your upset, I have seen so many times where these so called friends are just waiting to make you look bad, or change things, or out and out lie to jump in and sink their teeth into your man. Don’t ever give these friends your plans, thoughts or true feelings. You know these friends, we have all had them, they just hang around to get your man, just waiting for a chance to pounce.
I had one friend who would always want to come visit me, yet sit next to my boyfriend and talk to him the entire time, she acted like I wasn’t even in the room. It was sickening. I had heard when we had a short break up she was going into his service station every day with every car problem in the world. How convenient. She was just a little slut who didn’t care about me or actually any female, she wanted their men!!! We all know them too!
Big Big Rule here, if he leaves you for another woman, then you really have to be tough. Block him out of your mind all together. Everytime you think of him just focus on something bad about him and something good about yourself, or think of the most gorgeous man alive, even if you think he is at that time, there are others.
Many times men will leave for a fling and want you back, lets face it, some men just cheat, and sometimes you can never ever change this, even if your with them for years. That is up to you, but at all cost, never, ever, follow him, call the other woman, never make yourself look like a old chasing has been girlfriend or wife. Leave him go, as much as it hurts, don’t call him. Don’t ride by his hang outs, just let him go. Many times these are just flings and once he realizes this he will want you back, it’s up to you if you want him back, but many times that’s all it is, the grass is always greener on the other side, they think. You have to have the best lawn……..and you do! Maybe just not his type.
If he really loves you, this will make him so jealous, if he doesn’t care, he doesn’t love you, then again, move on.
He will come back, if he doesn’t, you don’t want to make a fool out of yourself chasing or calling him. Just leave him alone and see if he misses you. If he really loves you, he will, and he will call you. There is nothing worse than a woman running around chasing a man that doesn’t want her, then his ego gets going and not only is he bragging to all of his friends, but he is putting you down to other women.
I’m sorry, I can deal with alot of things, but not my ex telling other women I’m chasing him and won’t leave him alone.!!
I have never ever done it, and won’t, the way I see it, they are not worth it. If it was meant to be it will, if not, it’s time to MOVE ON!
It is hard ladies, but if he doesn’t want you there is nothing you can do to change it. Sometimes guys just need a break, and when they are away from you, they will realize how much they miss you and how much you mean to them. They will come back to you if that’s the case, if it’s not, leave it be, cry and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. It’s not a good feeling to be with someone not knowing if they really love you, or are with you because they feel bad from your crying and begging. If they do not really love you, you don’t want them anyway, and never settle for second best, if you feel your being used, or if he only comes back because someone else doesn’t want him, tell him, take a hike buddy.
Ladies, your smart, you will feel and know whats going on, every situation is different, but if he leaves you every time a cute girl talks to him, then you hear down the grapevine she left him, then he is calling you, he is a number 5. on the list above. You will never change him, and you shouldn’t want to, lose him now, he is a loser!!!
Then go out and have fun, love will come around again when you least expect it!!! Trust Me.
GIA CHANEL EZINE 